We were talking about what we should take along with us tomorrow, on our very spontaneous trip to visit my parents. Our list already included fresh strawberries and rhubarb picked from the garden (the first my dad will love, the second he will complain about), some snacks and goodies we have already in the fridge and freezer that we could take to share, and even a few wildflowers from the farm. But when James suggested we bring along the bananas on the counter, I had to laugh. “We’ve definitely crossed over into the habits of retired people when we take along the two bananas on the counter so they won’t go bad,” I quipped.

We decided just this morning to go visit my dad and second mom for a few days and within hours my nephew had agreed to house-sit, his girlfriend had agreed to clean our house while we are away and my sister and her husband are ready to jump in if there’s anything else we need. We are surrounded by such an amazing group of family and friends that are ready to help with whatever we might need. It is a blessing that goes far beyond any words of gratitude I could express.

Last night we met my sister and brother in law for dinner at a favorite pizza place on Lake Michigan. It was a beautiful night and a great kick-off to summer as we sat and talked, laughed and ate delicious, indulgent food.

On our way home, James and I stopped at my staff end-of-the-year party where we enjoyed talking with colleagues who have been so supportive, encouraging and helpful this year. James even got up and sang karaoke with my principal, to the delight of all. It was a beautiful evening with family and friends.

While we are in Tennessee, we hope to plan the rest of our summer – at least as much as we can right now – including a trip to the Upper Peninsula to the Soo Locks; visiting friends and family on the east side of the state and into Canada and perhaps even a trip to see the beautiful redwoods in California.

It isn’t hard to see how blessed we are by friends and family. From parents who are willing, able and excited for us to come on a day’s notice to a nephew who readily agreed to take care of the dog, cat, hens, cows, yard and watering needs of our home, and even to his sweet girlfriend who will help me reestablish my sanity through a cleaner house. My sister and her husband were such great company last night and the people I work with have been a blessing beyond words this past year. We are surrounded by support, every way we look.

So tomorrow, we will set out with two bananas in tow. I expect James will sleep much of the drive and I will listen to podcasts and try to keep my mind off things that are painful and heartbreaking and just live for the moment. But the summer awaits and there’s no time like right now to seek joy, laughter and love. Fortunately for us, none of those things are hard to find with friends and family like ours.